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The Star newspaper (Malaysia)
12 May 2007

An outing to remember for single parents and their kids


By YIP YOKE TENG

AN EXCURSION out of town may be nothing out of the ordinary to some, but to 40 single parents and their children from Hulu Langat, their recent visit to Bukit Tinggi was an event they would cherish for a long time to come.

To them, it was one of the rare occasions when they could put aside their worries and laugh from the bottom of their hearts.



One for the album: The single parents and their children taking a group photo in Bukit Tinggi.
The excursion was organised by the social workers of Rumah Love and Care old folks' home and Rumah Caring Kajang, a home for abused women and single mothers.

Berjaya Hills Bhd sponsored 150 entry tickets for the group and its general manager, Bjorn-Henning Buth, greeted the group personally. And, a generous well-wisher not only chartered two coaches for the trip, she even gave each member of the group an ang pow and present.

The peals of laughter and squeals of excitement never stopped as the children romped through the French village, Japanese Tea Garden, French and German castles, Spanish town and European cottages.
 
     
"I've never been so happy in a long time," said single mother Low Mei Sin, 37, a noodle seller. "My children have never had the privilege of having fun at such a nice holiday destination after their father died 10 years ago. Had this trip not been organised, we could never have experienced this."

Meanwhile, the children kept asking when they could go on another trip like that.

Organising chairperson Wendy Yap said taking their children out for a simple outing was a distant dream for the single parents who earned less than RM1,000 a month.
 
Boo to you!: The children, accompanied by social workers having fun with a costumed character dressed as the Grim Reaper, at Bukit Tinggi.
     
Taking in the view: The chance to admire beautiful scenery does not come every day to the single parents and their children, so the group makes the most of the opportunity they have on the trip to Bukit Tinggi.
  "The struggle of single parents and their children can be tougher than that of orphans and old folks," said Yap. An active social worker for 12 years, she has also personally supported a number of single-parent families for the past seven years.

"Corporations and individuals remember orphans and old folks, but not many think of single parents who are struggling to make ends meet. They have to endure the pain of separation from their spouses and the difficulty of re-joining the workforce and society," she said.

"As a result, they tend to neglect their children. Many children of single parents have succumbed to negative influence. We hope the outing can show them that they are not alone, and encourage them to take life positively," she added.

As the group left Bukit Tinggi, Koye Lion Dance Association treated them to a sumptuous buffet dinner in Cheras. The group enjoyed the lion dance performed by eight "lions", and received a hamper and ang pow each. The association had taken months to raise RM13,000 for the purpose.

"We hope other organisations will emulate our modest effort," said its president, Jeffrey Wong.

Expressing her gratitude to all parties involved, Yap urged individuals and corporations to extend help to single parents and their children.

"We hope we can take them on an out-of-town outing once a year," she said.
Yap can be reached at 012-238 0043.
 
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